Why I Stopped Pushing Myself Too Hard in Workouts—and Found a Smarter Way to Stay Fit-A Personal Story

For 11 years, I was all in with CrossFit. My goal? Lose weight and work out so hard that my body became a calorie-burning machine. And for a while, it worked. But over time, I realized something critical: how much you move matters—but moving intensely just once a day isn’t enough.

I used to push myself so hard in the gym that I couldn’t move for the rest of the day. I’d be too exhausted to cook dinner, run errands, or even get off the couch. Over time, I noticed that working out at such a high intensity in my mid- to late 50s wasn’t just unhelpful—it was actually counterproductive to my goal of getting in the best shape of my life.

Here’s why: When we work out, we stress our bodies, and that stress triggers the release of cortisol, our body’s primary stress hormone. Guess where cortisol loves to hang out? In your belly. So while I thought I was doing my body a favor, I was actually working against myself.

On top of that, those intense workouts made me ravenous. I’d end up overeating to recover from the stress I’d put my body through—again, sabotaging my own progress.

What finally clicked for me was understanding how exercise affects the body and how to work with my system instead of against it.

Now, I focus on incorporating movement throughout my day rather than relying solely on a single, exhausting workout. For example:

• When my son has a 45-minute orthodontist appointment, I walk laps outside instead of waiting in the car.

• While watching TV, I make it a point to get up and walk around or do 10 squats every 30 minutes.

Not everyone has the time—or energy—to spend an hour at the gym every day, and that’s okay. The key is finding ways to weave movement into your everyday life, whether it’s at the office, at home, or while running errands.

This approach has helped me feel better mentally and physically, all while working in harmony with my body—not against it. Small, intentional movements add up, and they make a big difference in how you look, feel, and live.

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Author: Ginak

Hi, I’m Gina! I’m a mom of two amazing teenagers and have been happily married for 20 years. At nearly 60, I’m living proof that it’s never too late to thrive—physically, mentally, and spiritually. My mission is to inspire and empower women to live with strength, purpose, and joy, no matter what stage of life they’re in. I’ve spent years prioritizing my health and personal growth, and today I’m as fit as I was in my 30s. Staying active, eating well, and fostering a positive mindset have transformed my life, and I want to share what I’ve learned with you. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of motherhood, marriage, or aging gracefully, this blog is here to uplift and encourage you. Through my blog, you’ll find: • Simple fitness tips for staying strong and vibrant. • Practical advice for maintaining health and wellness. • Encouraging stories to help you tackle life’s challenges with confidence. Life is busy, especially as a mom and wife, but I believe that making time for yourself is essential. My goal is to help you create a life full of energy, grace, and balance—and to remind you that you’re never too old or too busy to chase your best self. Let’s thrive together! I’d love to hear your story, connect with you in the comments, or chat on social media. Welcome to a community of women who inspire and encourage one another to be their best at any age.

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